I have begun blogging in secret. My husband gets his feelings hurts when I’m on the computer and not engaged with what is going on around me! I guess he has a point, but it’s really hard to blog when he’s not around. He’s always around! We have pretty much the same schedule, so I’m trying to get creative.
I thought I had the perfect solution. I couldn’t sleep one night, so I got up and began a blog post. I was in the den…but I heard from deep in our room “Come back to bed!” It was 3:00 AM. He had been sound asleep.
It’s as if he can smell my writing. I’ve gotten jumpy when I am blogging, like I’m doing something I’m not suppose to be doing. But I love writing. I love reflecting on my days and trying to craft a story.
I’m pretty good at hiding some things…like chocolate and receipts….(hiding is a strong word…more like discreet storage) maybe I’ll get better at hiding my blogging.
Have you ever hidden anything from your husband? Not that I am promoting keeping secrets from your spouse, but…have you? Do you?
Well yes I have had Dicreet Storage….I like the sound of that better, it makes deceitfulness sound better. Yes that is what hidding is ( and still guilty of it sometimes). I had a wise woman tell me once, think of how you react when your husband hides something from you. That hit me hard. I do understand the scheduling of always being around, so look at the blessing of that. I know when I am on the computer at home Mike feels like he and the kids are not “important” and if I am emailing a freind about my day he would feel like he was not the person I want to vent to. Maybe you should let Scott know how important it is to you and others, many of your fellow sisters are encouraged by your stories and how it makes us reflect on our behavior in so many ways”. But at the same time maybe you should ask him for input on a story for your blog. We just have to keep in mind BLUE GLASSES verses PINK GLASSES!!